Do not complain about other subs here, we're not your 1-800 hotline for issues with them. sex). She did, right after I went down on her. It was a casual relationship at the time (about a month's worth of hooking up and seeing each other), and she quickly added she'd let that slip and didn't expect me to say it back. After about 3 months of seeing each other. We both laughed then I said it back. I said it first 2 months in. Go ahead and say "I love you" first. [–]cheekiestdocMale 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). It's always heartwarming to hear stories about longtime friends falling back together in a more intimate way. Neither can we lol. [–]teH_wuT 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). Who Says 'I Love You' First, and Why It's So Important There’s more to saying “I love you” than sharing a powerful emotion. We lived an hours' drive apart, and only saw each other once a week, so we talked on the phone every night after I got home from work. He said it to me a few minutes after, and I said it back a few hours later. I was barely awake, she was much more alert. We were eating dinner discussing something, and she just said "I love you" kind of very naturally, not thinking. If you are like most people, you might be tempted to say women. I did reciprocate because I felt the same way. Get an ad-free experience with special benefits, and directly support Reddit. Studies show that men tend to say I love you first and from all these responses it's showing that result. And if you are the one who isn't ready to introduce your partner to your friends and family, then that could be a sign that you should hold off on telling them you love them. [–]Lagmower 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]McGiggins♂ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. *blushes *, [–]Dajbman22♂ CROWN PRINCE OF PIZZA 60Answer Link5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children). During this time we both kept catching ourselves almost saying it and eventually did. I've had a couple guys say it to me before I was ready (looking at you, guy that got smashed on our first date and told me he was in love with me), but out of my four long term relationships, it's 2:2. Knowing When To Say 'I Love You" For The First Time Is Beyond Confusing, So We Gathered The Best Advice On The Subject From Reddit AskMen To Help You Out. I thought I'd fucked something up but apparently she was just happy. But whatever, I still loved him, or at least I felt like I should. You're the man, you're not supposed to have squishy emotions like 'love.' When you say it, it should be to confirm what she already knows because of all the things you've already done for her. Ended up just saying it randomly and felt so good to say.Been together a little over 10 months now.Can't wait to see where this journey of ours goes. Just go for it. Do not make posts asking about someone's/some group's actions, behavior, or thinking. There is a big difference between guys and girls in relationships. [–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). If a guy says I love you first, he probably will reduce the interest the girl had initially. [–]unclebodey 50Answer Link4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children). He was showing me something in his phone, on a corner, and received a message from his mom. We were driving back from our first road trip together, and it had gone really well, but suddenly, about an hour before we arrived at my place to drop me off, we started having a serious discussion that almost led to our breakup. I did. Then she quietly, somewhat worriedly said "Did you hear me?" He said it on purpose about a week later. Sub will cease operations at 3,000,000 Subscribers. [–]NeedlecrashLET'S GET NUTS. About a month in my gf said it. After a couple months of constantly spending time together. But as I age I'm realizing those feelings probably aren't love. She did, and no. [–]jakesboy2 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). We arent dating anymore but I didnt say it back right away because I wasnt sure if I did or not yet. Your partner should go out of their way to include you in conversation, talk you up by telling everyone some of your goals and accomplishments, and show you affection regardless of who's around. She was very held back with her feelings, and in the end she only truly realized it after I made her feel jealous. We agreed to say whatever we needed to say at the same time, and both ended up saying, ‘I love you.’ It felt so awesome to say and we were both super giddy the rest of the night. She hung up. We were laying in bed one morning when she said it. [–]BOX_OF_CATSFemale 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children). Usually me. Did you/she/he say it back right away? If one of you is a bit less vocal, but one of you really needs to hear it, you have to meet in the middle. 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]CanIGetaPuppy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). I’ve been dying to say it for a long time now but I want him to say it first. In every case for be its been me who said it first, but only after she very very strongly hinted that she loved me just didn't wanna be the first to say it. Lady boners for miles. He just stated that he knew l loved him from the start, which I couldn't deny, and then he professed his love for me :'), [–][deleted] 270Answer Link26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (3 children). Lady here; I said it first. We had only been dating for about a month but had known each other for close to eight months by that point, and on New Year's Eve at some point, we were kissing and drunk and he went "Are we at the 'I love you' stage yet? In this study, the majority of subjects believed that women normally say "I love you" first, near the two-month mark. First warning is a temp ban, second warning is a permaban. And there was bonded involved for another month or two. During the trip I was debating whether or not I loved him, but at that moment, it hit me that I really didn't want to lose him. A couple of minutes later, she called back and said, "Did you just say 'I love you'?" In my experience, while women might feel exactly the same, they tend to hold back on declarations of love for fear of "scaring men off". The question is, is that the part you were asking after? I did, I wanted to about two months in but I pussied out and waited 3.5 months. I got an oh (as a response) from her. What are the top 3, most valuable attributes which you think are required for a great and lasting romantic relationship? She told me to shut up and got out of the car. 2 year relationship, some good, alot of bad. Oh well. [–]Im_Not_Famous♂ 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children). I said it first, several weeks into the relationship. How did you get to that point? She said it right back. The other surprise - the majority of subjects also believed that women were happier upon hearing the profession of love. I actually said it first about 3 months in. We fell for each other hard. Mainly because girls tend to assume you're just saying it back. From where I come from: it's not what you say, it's what do. Sometimes automod fucks up - if you think it did, you can message us, but if you roll up to the modmail with a fucking attitude, we're not going to indulge you. I knew it at 3 months though. The more ruddy parts of Nevada. Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help! Me. [–]cobalt_coyoteMale -4 points-3 points-2 points 5 years ago (0 children). Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. In my experience, while women might feel exactly the same, they tend to hold back on declarations of love for fear of "scaring men off". However, Marie Claire dating columnist Rich Santos counters that men might be holding back on making that first move for fear of not hearing "I love you" in return. Not the best way to go, but it was a difficult year for me. She did. We like the specificity of this. I lemons you" and i'd get giggly over it being the girly girl i am knowing we were almost saying it and messing with each other over it.) Keep your question concise. Eventually, it'll pop out anyways! This is not a fucking optional rule. Beyond that, if you say it first, you’ll lose your chance of ever finding out when he would have said it. This was about 6 weeks into the relationship. Straight men, what's the strangest thing you've been told not to do because, “thats gay?”. One night, we were saying goodbye, and I said, "I love you." I said it first after a year and two months or something like that. He did. [–]Berubara 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children), I would assume sex is already there at the point where love declarations are made :/, [–]The_13th_King 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child), [–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children), Thank you but they're not that great. I did, she ignored it for about a week. Women should only say the "L" word first if they are prepared to let their partners go should the response prove to be less than desirable. No clickbait (i.e. Go to http://www.WomensHealthMag.com/Sex-and-Relationships for more dating advice. [–]manbearpig073♂ 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]AnxietyoO 540Answer Link53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children), We were about 2 months in and she said it. It had it's awkward moments because I wanted to save it and say it at just the right moment when it felt perfect.We knew the feeling was mutual, and i never knew two people could really connect and feel this way about each other in such little time. Search the subreddit. [–]esapollo 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (6 children), [–]AnEndgamePawn 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (2 children), [–]TheUndeadKid♂ 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child), [–]ninjaassassin201NUMBNUTS 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children), [–]tebows_gold_britches 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child), [–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]jonnymous 70Answer Link6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children). I said it first about 5 months in and she cried for like 2 minutes before saying it back. Be respectful. [–]simsim98 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children), It was about 3.5 months in and I hadn't seen her in a month, I said it to her and she was caught off guard. I'd be all, "You don't know me, fool!" If you repeatedly ignore this, we will ban you. I would be very wary of a guy who told me he loved before 90 days of dating.. Frequently asked questions will be removed at our discretion. Who Says 'I Love You' First, and Why It's So Important There’s more to saying “I love you” than sharing a powerful emotion. I had the same fear when I said it, but it just seemed like a really opportune time to say it. Don’t worry about it — it’s not a big deal. [–]Benjamminmiller 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]Guyinapeacoat 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children). Do not insult or troll people, including in PMs. There is no right way to drop the first "I love you". Everyone expresses love in different ways. Anyone is allowed to ask and answer questions. I think love is more special than sex, so idk. Downvoters: Who are we to doubt Han Solo? It was New Years and her mom and sister were drunk and told me to say it because she was too scared to. Do not post just to push an agenda. I guess she didn't deserve my love. Whoever feels comfortable first but it shouldn’t really matter, New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the relationship_advice community, Continue browsing in r/relationship_advice. She did. https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/should-i-say-i-love-you-first/2084593 Those who are working from home, how often are you masturbating a day. If you are wondering if it applies to you, it does. [–]Redtube_Guy 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (4 children), [–]tebows_gold_britches 52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (3 children), [–]MoldyTomatoesMale 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children). Then I said it again and she reciprocated after about 3 minutes of contemplation. I'll tell you why HE needs to be the one to drop those three little words, and what can happen if you beat him to it. My wife did. Who should say I love you first--you or your boyfriend? its too risky for men to say "I love you" first. After all, who are all those romantic comedies and chick flick movies marketed toward? I don't think anyone I know ever SAID "I love you", but equally I don't think anyone ever doubted they were loved. She wanted to say it first, but she was afraid it would freak me out and scare me off. We had already hinted around at it so it was just a matter of time. If you can't keep it in anymore, you might be the one to burst. [–]SirCyclopsMale 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), She said it first, I waited a month later to say it but I had just gotten out of a 4 year relationship. Participate elsewhere on Reddit to gain experience and karma before trying to post here. So my question is if everybody responding here actually meant when they first said it? But at the same time, avoid waiting for the girl to say it 1st. Close. I said it first in one relationship that ended shortly after. It shouldn't matter who says it first. If you feel like you're in a game of "I love you" chicken, odds are he's waiting for you to say it because he's just as scared of the potential rejection as you are. The title of your post must contain an actual question. She did. Fellow dudes, what fictional job/company from a movie, tv show, or book would be an awesome place to work at? We both are absolutely and completely in love but NEITHER of us have said it yet. Don't comment/post self-deprecating content looking for attention. The beginning of a relationship is always plagued by the same question: When should you say 'I love you' for the first time? [–]Tallguystrongman 180Answer Link17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children). Even if you’re the one who asked him out, there are probably still a few things he’d like to do first, and professing his love for you could be one of them. It was about 6-7 months in and I said it first. [–]thingpaint 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). Listen to her babble about her day, plan out a whole date to amuse her, think of the most random thing she ever said in passing and treat that like her deepest desire, for fun. I left her home after a party and said it before saying goodbye. It's been 2.5 years and we're not together, but when I get the occasional "I love you" out of the blue it feels the same as the first few times. Congratulations on the love. And then we left the party and ate diner reubens until 4am and it was the best NYE ever. He had gotten out of a very long term relationship shortly before dating me - … What has been your lowest moments of the pandemic? when do you know you are ready? When you're ready to say "I love you," the first thing you should feel is happier than you've ever felt before. I told my ex I loved her about three months in. [–]blamb211Male 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child), [–]DEADdrop_ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]accounthrow24 270Answer Link26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (1 child). It robs all of your power and places it firmly in her hands. I said it first after about 4 months in while lying in bed - it just felt right. Men who leave the toilet without washing your hands: why? This includes external sites looking to farm responses for content. and join one of thousands of communities. I said it back about a week or two later. I just pretended I didn't hear (although I give him shit about it now). Do not storm into the modmail with a bad attitude if this is the removal reason. [–]junkeee999 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). He told me first, at about 1.5 months in. Go fucking ask them yourself. It's not just that you love your partner more than you used to -- it's that today you actually sat down and thought about the fact that your love grew in the past 24 hours. Do not post negative/forever alone rants or whiny posts. We traveled to the beach the day before, so maybe some salt water seeped into my brain. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Unsure if the rules apply to you for your post/comment? If you want to be a sad sack and complain about your life, go to /r/rant or /r/ForeverAlone. [–]thedictatorscut♀ 60Answer Link5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children), He said it first. She said "I love you." Yesterday, all I ate was two boxes of Oreos. We're not fucking psychic. [–]blamb211Male 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. I had planned to tell him I loved him that day but then he got some bad news and we had an event planned later that night so the timing never felt right. Should it always be the guy? Landscape-wise? This was all about 2 months in. NO SURVEYS. I said it first two months into dating. She said it back, but she never meant it. Revealed: Why COVID-19 kills some patients but not others I said it, around 3 months in.. Saying the L-word is a big moment in a relationship. You can't think of a gift idea? I was going to wait until we were back in the apartment and all cuddled up but then he sprung it on me before I could say it. Usually around 3-5 months. 44. I've had a couple guys say it to me before I was ready (looking at you, guy that got smashed on our first date and told me he was in love with me), but out of my four long term relationships, it's 2:2. Then, about a month later, she said it. I've learned not to say it if you don't mean it. We are enjoying “us time,” which you would totally understand if you’re a parent!! My feeling is that you should let him say it first. [–]someguy514 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). I think I love you". We had sex before I said I love you, if that matters. We do not allow questions/comments from throwaways or accounts with low karma (< 5 for comments, < 10 for posts). Do not directly link to comments in other subs. He beat me to it. However, from the same studies men tend to not mean it and is used to get to a goal (i.e. She said it back. ... Doctors of reddit, what’s it like when you go in for a doctors appointment? [–]skinnyfatty1987 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]ArcturustheFirst 240Answer Link23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (1 child). Societal gender norms suggest that women should be most concerned with declarations of love, especially during the early, uncertain phase of relationships. In my last relationship, she let me know early on how much she'd fallen for me, but she also said that she wanted to share the moment with me. Last relationship: she, about a year in. [–]iPeeLavaLampGooMale 740Answer Link73 points74 points75 points 5 years ago (1 child). Guys who live with or have SO staying over. Hi Love Shy, Yes. [–]Saphire0230 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). Its just how it works. Months later she told me that she couldn't believe i said it (in a good way). I think this was about 2 months into things. Introverts whose love language is physical touch, how do you balance your alone time while also getting your closeness needs met? Do not post pictures or ask questions looking for affirmation of your appearance or body features. Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. She said it about 3 weeks later after I opened up to her about the abusive relationship I was in before I was dating her, [–]Floodman11Yeah mate 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). "There are a lot of people that have a formulaic view of love and set arbitrary standards," says Siegel. She said it as I was dropping her off at her place after a few months of dating. [–]Rangerfan1214 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), I was getting ready to leave after a full day together and she just said it, then blurted out "you don't have to say it back I know it's early". Relationship (in one form or another) is about 2 years old. That includes boobs, butts, and your weird eyebrows. Once you know him pretty well, it should become clear how he feels about you. Real guys share their thoughts on who should say "I love you" first. Cookies help us deliver our Services. Seriously, we're gonna remove this shit. It slipped out of her 3 months in. No, we were the kind who said “I love you” for the first time over a damn iMessage. 7 years later we got married and have been for nearly 20 years. I was drunk. We recommend talking to a medical professional instead of the Internet. You should say it if you feel it. Let her say it first, then go, "I know, baby" and be done with it. "What do you think of this?"). Was about a month in, and we've been married for 15 years now. Usually about a month in. No regrets, [–]OlavRG 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). Or at least she knew she loved me before I knew I loved her, [–]Metatality♂ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children). Pool's open. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. She said it first. I said it right back to him after. Medical advice is not allowed here. Overly political questions will be removed. How many friends do you have, how often do you talk/ meet up/ text, and how old are you? I know there's a perceived "special" way to say I love you, but it's the emotions contained in the moment itself that make it special. [+][deleted] comment score below threshold-15 points-14 points-13 points 5 years ago (0 children). [–]yetslineFemale 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). [–]quantum_man 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). You also should not say "I love you" if you feel that you are under any sort of obligation. Were happy together another 1,5 year after that. But it was because she was going into a potentially dangerous situation and wanted me to know. We all want to be with someone who is truly compatible with us and if I had … I always say it first. Where would be as a human race without alcohol? I don't know if guys care what the order is, but I get the impression that girls prefer you to say … I say that because him saying it first to you means a lot more than you saying it to him first… When he says it to you first, it will come across as him declaring something to you. Was it planned or spontaneous? [–]wakingoneironaut 140Answer Link13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago* (0 children). [–]IntoTheWestMale 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). Do not ask for gift ideas; visit /r/gifts. It was a few months in. Meant it to :D, [–]HellhoundsOnMyTrail 770Answer Link76 points77 points78 points 5 years ago (5 children). So I kissed her and said it back, I meant it too. "talking about me. [–]asexyelectron -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (0 children), [+]thedude704 comment score below threshold-8 points-7 points-6 points 5 years ago (0 children), [+][deleted] comment score below threshold-44 points-43 points-42 points 5 years ago (2 children). I didn't know if she had actually said it or if I dreamed it, so I didn't respond immediately as I tried to decide which it was. 2. There are subs like /r/politics and /r/PoliticalDiscussion if you want to debate political ideas or candidates. © 2020 reddit inc. All rights reserved. I did. My girl did. Visit /r/ForeverAlone or /r/rant if you want to complain. “Of course you should,” said my friend Sasha, a theatre director and true believer in love at first sight. She said it back straight away with the biggest smile on her face. This is interesting. Girls imagine you say I love you for the 1st time, and he conveniently says it back then? Two years and counting =3, [–]cobalt_coyoteMale -5 points-4 points-3 points 5 years ago (2 children). Pardon my lack of lady flair! How long into the relationship was it? This feeling of feeling like I should love him led to the feeling of me feeling like I should tell him. I wanted to first, about a month and a half in, but she somehow sensed it, and cut me off, told me it was too early. I'm not talking about flowers and gifts. But she loved me before I loved her. In my opinion, it's important for men take the lead in uttering those words, but the truth is that most of them could use our help. Posted by 12 years ago. Not knowing which way it was going to go, once we made it to my parking lot, we were saying bye, and I just blurted out: "you know what sucks on top of everything else? P.S.- my current boyfriend is so clever. [–]ferocity562Female 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children). We were in his grandfather's funeral, 5 months dating. It took her a couple days, but with a grimace she admitted she loved me too. Because I kinda love you.". [–]DrunkenBlowfish 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children). I believe it was about a month and a half to two months in. The first time was on accident during sex. Two I married (one still married to), one I said it too frivolously and prematurely...it didn't last long, and one was "the one who got away", the one who you still think about even though you are in a very different place now. I've said it to 4 women. Apparently she was waiting for me. Read the Frequently Asked Questions wiki and do a search before asking a question. Men in relationships: who said I love you first? So, who should say 'I love you' first? You should say it as often as works for you, but I mean you both— you as a couple. His last text to her was "I love that girl! I've never said it to any SO since. Click here. It may sound like a fairly trivial thing to discuss who should say “I love you” first, but creating and maintaining the right dynamic when in a relationship with a woman is very important. He noticed I saw it, and we laughed, kinda nervous. [–]EmeraldCityZagMale 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children). It was a couple weeks in. Do not ask yes/no or one word answer questions. [–]SemperSometimes11 140Answer Link13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children). What do you keep around your place? Surprisingly: The man actually spoke the magic words first in more than 62 percent of relationships. Wanted to actually mean it when I said it. REDDIT and the ALIEN Logo are registered trademarks of reddit inc. π Rendered by PID 11708 on r2-app-014b29f0b8a278ed2 at 2020-12-09 15:08:59.315980+00:00 running 59d663e country code: HK. Need help with your relationship? Then I smiled, rolled over to face her, and whispered in her ear "I love you too," and she grabbed my face and started kissing me. It took me a few more weeks before we said it to each other,. https://www.thethings.com/20-things-men-say-love-first-sight-according-reddit Ask A Dating Question - https://datinglogic.net/ask-a-question/ Answer A Dating Question - https://datinglogic.net/forums/forum/qa/ I said it first time at about 3 months. A little earlier than most of the responses in this thread but our relationship has progressed faster than most relationships. She said it right back. She was not happy. She caught herself and had an "oh shit" moment, but I just smiled and said it back. Maybe two months in. Never say 'I love you' first. Another month later she said it again and I replied with the same. I don't think women should say "I love you" first. I was single a week later. [–][deleted] 110Answer Link10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (8 children). John and Hannah tell you who should say it first. Suddenly, she looked wide-eyed and alarmed, to which I replied, [–]Im_a_shaaarkBane 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), [–]smpl-jaxMale 190Answer Link18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children). In a recent study, 64% of participants were likely to think women were the first to say they were in love, and these professions were estimated to occur close to 2 months into a relationship (Ackerman, Griskevicius, & Li, 2011). https://www.vixendaily.com/love/should-you-say-i-love-you-first-or-wait-for-him Now we are approaching on two years together. Rendered by PID 11708 on r2-app-014b29f0b8a278ed2 at 2020-12-09 15:08:59.315980+00:00 running 59d663e country code: HK. 2. Do you and your doctor discuss what’s wrong with you like it’s a group project? My girlfriend said "I love you" first a month after starting our relationship and I felt the same way and told her right back. [–]HAHAHAgaryMale 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children), We both sort of said it at the same time. Are you able to live in the moment and just enjoy things without your mind wandering off? ASKREDDIT: How long into your relationship did you say "I love you" for the first time? [–]MrGreggleMale 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children). ( we said lemons as a substitute till we felt it was the perfect moment. " I said it first about 2 months in. [–]Benjamminmiller 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (2 children). She said my name and I sleepily grumbled in response. Time stood still, birds fell from the sky (that's what it felt like, anyways).......he gave me a huge smile, hugged me and said: "awwww, I love you too!". After asking him if I had heard him correctly, I told him I loved him too and sat with a stupid grin on my face for the rest of the night. Message the moderators with any questions/comments. Then I was fully awake. I was shocked that he said it so soon since he's very logical and just not very emotional. I'm more in love with you today than I was yesterday. The part you were asking after men to say `` I love you. I should love led. Prince of PIZZA 60Answer Link5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago ( 0 children.! 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